This column hit my local paper about a month ago--although Christmas has now passed I hope it's still relevant as we enter the new year. I hope everyone has a safe and happy celebration!
Countdown to 2017
What kind of a year would you like 2017 to be? Let’s hope
it’s peaceful. But on a personal level, what do you want for yourself and your
family in the coming year? Obviously, good health and time together will top
the list but how does “stress-free” sound? If you could put some effort into
preparing for the financial challenges you will face in the future, would you?
Remember that if you keep doing what you’ve been doing you will keep getting
what you’ve been getting. If money has stressed you out in 2016, what changes
are you willing to make so that 2017 doesn’t follow that same path?
December may be an impossible month to think of having a
shopping ban, but January is well suited to some frugal cutbacks. Who wants to
see the inside of a store in January, anyways? But what about the Boxing Day
sales, you might ask. Unless there’s something you’ve been waiting to buy on a
fantastic sale, avoid spending more
after you’ve already blown a wad on Christmas.
Is there really anything you need? If so, Boxing Day is a
great time to buy if your item is significantly reduced in price. But how many
other “deals” will you be unable to resist? It’s a slippery slope when money is
tight. Remember that by the time the credit card bill arrives in January the “new”
will have already worn off your impulsive splurges. Will you regret it then?
Maybe it’s best to avoid the sales and the buyer’s remorse that comes with them.
Do some winter reading
Prepare for a more financially stable 2017 by reading about
budgets, reducing debt and saving. Keep these issues on the forefront of your
mind—there’s much inspiration to be found on blogs like Mr. Money Mustache (language
warning!), written by a retired 30-year-old. Frugalwoods is another great read,
following a family that saves over 70% of their monthly income with extreme
frugality. Do you need to be so radical? Of course not. But if you’re
struggling and don’t know where to start, reading about people who have gained
control of their finances is very motivating. Likewise, some financial classics
such as Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin, Debt Free Forever
by Gail Vaz-Oxlade or David Chilton’s The Wealthy Barber are as relevant
now as ever (get them from the library!).
Pay yourself first
After your bills are paid, and before you buy yourself or
your kids any extras, have money automatically transferred to another account.
Earmark this money for an extra mortgage payment, investments, emergencies.
Whatever you decide, don’t go to the trouble of reducing your spending without
actually putting the savings to good use. It’s very possible to reduce spending
in some areas only to have it trickle away in others. Make a plan with concrete
objectives and follow through with action.
This isn’t a New
Year’s resolution
We all know what happens with the promises made over
champagne on New Year’s Eve. By February the gym membership is a waste and
you’ve resumed all your old habits. Unless you immerse yourself in some
education and develop new attitudes to money, 2017 is likely to be as stressful
as 2016 was. Be proactive. If online shopping is your weakness, unsubscribe
from mailing lists and limit your internet time. If apps like Pinterest make
you yearn for more stuff, remove them from your phone or suspend your account.
Instead of meals out, connect with friends over a cup of coffee. Turn no-spend
days into no-spend weeks. Graduate to entire months where you buy only the
essentials. Challenge a friend or relative to a shopping ban. And remember,
when you feel pressured to join in on expensive activities that you can’t
afford, “No” is a complete sentence. You don’t need to explain or justify that
decision. Real friends will respect that. Spending to be accepted is not only
foolhardy, it is chasing approval that you can’t sustain.
Finding a new normal
This is not to say that the financial woes of the last few
years are simply a consumer problem. People took a significant financial hit
and it takes time to recover. But recovery will come when you can consistently
spend less than you are making. Create habits that save you money. Get creative
about earning more. Do something with the surplus—build an emergency fund,
snowball your debt, plan for your retirement. Invest your time in people that
enjoy you for who you are, not for what you own. New “stuff” does nothing for
your future. It gives a fleeting sense of accomplishment and a joy that quickly
fades. It leads to more stress. Start preparing now for a 2017 that takes you
down a more simple, stable financial path.
Love it! Roll on Jaundice January and Frugal February - I'm ready for ya! Making sure to save the savings is so important - I am going to get better at this in 2017.
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I am super-motivated too, Pru! There's something about a new year (after the excess of Christmas) that makes me want to purge and clean my house, and revamp the budget even more! I hope you have a wonderful 2017!
DeleteThese are great reminders, Jill. I have to admit, sitting on my couch dealing with day 7 of a nasty flu, I started to browse through some sites to "just take a peek" at the sales, and I quickly had to snap out of it! I'm glad I wandered over to your wonderful blog instead to get my mind right. Next stop is checking out some of Gail's articles - I find she's my go-to when I need a bit of tough love as she tells it straight. Thank you for the great tips!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry you have had the flu! What a terrible time for it! But congratulations on not giving in to temptation...I confess that some Christmas gift cards and the idea of Boxing week sales has me contemplating a trip to town, alone, to look at a few things I've been saving for. But do we really NEED anything? I think you're right, some frugal reading might be the best antidote! Happy new year!
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